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Negar Kamali's avatar

I'm a late- bloomer, and for the past few years, it seems my life has been still on the surface level (but under this calm surface, there have been quakes and storms happening). Two milestones that come to my mind are these: after two years of feeling awful and very depressed, i started going therapy sessions for some time, and two, since a few months ago, i'm learning German seriously (I have plans, but not gonna spoil them so soon).

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Judy Murdoch's avatar

When I graduated from college (long, long time ago) everyone I knew wanted to get jobs right away and start climbing the corporate ladder. I sure did! This in itself was a shift from my mom's generation who began families right after high school.

My son (about 30 yrs) and his friends seem to be taking their time with careers let alone starting families. It makes a lot of sense to me because the world has become such a complex place. Although my son has a degree in computer science he's been doing a lot of exploration around how and whether he wants to use his degree. He tried working for corporations and quickly realized it's not for him. I'm glad he has the freedom to explore and not feel compelling to do the same thing for 40-years.

And totally agree that values take a very long time to become fully integrated. Despite the gains made through the Civil Rights movement and having a Black president there is still an enormous amount of backlash in the U.S. Here in the 21st Century millions of Americans want to return to a time when the U.S. was run by a small group of wealthy, white Christian men. It's like the Southern Confederacy never really went away.

It's an arc that moves very, very slowly as Dr. King said.

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