People are taking longer to grow up—and longer to grow old.
It is not just the kids.
Whether we’re tuned in or totally unaware, the signs are clear:
We’re all moving more slowly
through the traditional markers of life.
What’s up with that?
What if this isn’t a breakdown… but a course correction?
“Course correction? Are you kidding me?”
We’re crumbling. Systems are failing. People are panicking.
If this is a course correction, where exactly are we headed?
Here’s a thought:
Each generation plays a role in shifting the course.
Do you believe it?
When early Boomers burst onto the scene, they rallied, resisted, and shouted “No more!” to the rigid traditions of the past. But leadership—still helmed by the GI and Silent Generations—wasn’t ready to loosen its grip. Over time, that early Boomer fire smoldered out, while the industrial engines kept humming.
So… was all that Boomer vision energy for nothing?
At first glance, maybe.
But Late Wave Boomers took a different tack: If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em.
Though it looked like a return to business-as-usual, something had shifted. Slowly but surely, cracks began to show—at first, too small to halt the system, but enough to signal the beginning of the end. Foundations once solid began to give way. Even Boomers began to see that outdoing the previous generations was a fast track to nowhere.
That early Boomer vision, though slow to manifest, was enough to put a kink in the gears and quietly nudge us onto a new trajectory.
It wasn’t abrupt. But it was real.
Here’s the thing:
Deep societal change doesn’t happen overnight.
It takes decades.
Actually, it takes generations.
Each generation arrives with its own nudge—some gentle, some thunderous—steering culture in a new direction.
So maybe this slower pace isn’t stalling out.
Maybe it’s a signal.
Life isn’t following a straight line the way we were taught to expect.
It’s evolving.
Knowing this…
Might it be just a little easier to lean into this slower unfolding?
Which milestones took you longer to reach than expected?
What’s happening in your life today that seems to be in slow-motion mode?
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”Maybe this forced deliberate pace is just intrinsically part of being in that period.
And it reveals something central about us, about our institutions that, maybe, rapid movement would just hide. It forces us to look closer, perhaps, because
everything is moving with such deliberate exposed weight.”
I'm a late- bloomer, and for the past few years, it seems my life has been still on the surface level (but under this calm surface, there have been quakes and storms happening). Two milestones that come to my mind are these: after two years of feeling awful and very depressed, i started going therapy sessions for some time, and two, since a few months ago, i'm learning German seriously (I have plans, but not gonna spoil them so soon).
When I graduated from college (long, long time ago) everyone I knew wanted to get jobs right away and start climbing the corporate ladder. I sure did! This in itself was a shift from my mom's generation who began families right after high school.
My son (about 30 yrs) and his friends seem to be taking their time with careers let alone starting families. It makes a lot of sense to me because the world has become such a complex place. Although my son has a degree in computer science he's been doing a lot of exploration around how and whether he wants to use his degree. He tried working for corporations and quickly realized it's not for him. I'm glad he has the freedom to explore and not feel compelling to do the same thing for 40-years.
And totally agree that values take a very long time to become fully integrated. Despite the gains made through the Civil Rights movement and having a Black president there is still an enormous amount of backlash in the U.S. Here in the 21st Century millions of Americans want to return to a time when the U.S. was run by a small group of wealthy, white Christian men. It's like the Southern Confederacy never really went away.
It's an arc that moves very, very slowly as Dr. King said.